I have uploaded some images of Xantha's memory garden for people to see, we have some truly lovely roses in the garden with butterfly solar powered lights, her name is spelt out in stone. Peter did a good job on it. Yesterday was a pretty hard day for me, I didn't stop thinking about her all day. I wallowed for the last couple of days in misery, but woke up feeling beter today. Tomorrow it will be exactly one month since she passed away, I hope that I will be ok then.
3 comments:
I love the garden Mel...it is a wonderful way to remember.
Let yourself grieve Mel, you are going to have a lot of days where you will be miserable but thats all part of the healing process.
My thoughts are with you and all your family.
Love and hugs,
Jen
OH Mel....love the garden..it is lovely to see a beautiful place to look at so you can reflect on the memory of Xantha...yes you will have found mothers day hard but you got through with the love of your family around you....allow your grief to flow...
"to cry is to remember to not cry is to forget..."
You are in my thoughts and I am sure you will achieve your 2 goals...
Berrie xxx
mel, i have just been reading through your blog, i know u read mine and i hardly ever get a chance to read around others blogs, people like you are amazing. i sat here crying and thinking about how wonderful it must have been for xantha to have such a caring and beautiful mother for her short time in this world.
you really are a beautiful person and this garden shows only a small tiny section of your love for your baby girl but shows the world how much you care....
i feel for you in your loss but the way you stay positive and keep going through all of this is an absolute inspiration. you are amazing.
how many times can i say it?
it makes everything in life seem so trivial when i read something like this. not that this is something i read often, but you know what i mean.
you my dear are an absolute rock and may the little rocks in your beautiful garden remind you of that every day.... and on top of that.... you are striving towards a personal weight loss goal....
you go girl!
please let me know if u want any tips or help because im an old hat at this ww business hehe
luv tiny donna xx
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